Starting out strong, and opinionated.

I completely understand that people are going to fuck, especially when there aren’t a lot of better things to do. But could someone please tell me why a huge chunk of people that I know are getting pregnant? First and foremost I am not in any way disapproving of it. Do your thing especially if you are super happy in a 100% stable relationship. However if you are not really happy and not stable at all WHY THE FUCK wouldn’t you use protection? We have the right, and privilege being Americans where we can get affordable forms of birth control. If you were actually trying for a baby and your 17 years old somewhere in your life someone fucked up raising you and I’m sorry. But if you weren’t trying to have a baby, and you used NO form of contraceptive I don’t feel sorry for you at all. Sorry I’m not sorry for all the future money problems you’re going to have. What I am sorry for is your future child. If he or she is half is fucked up as you are then I’m going to kill myself when I’m 30. I don’t want all of your ridiculous offspring’s running the government. Sorry for the child again because I guarantee not even half of the parents will stay together. What I feel the worst about is the future grandparents because they realized they must have not done a good enough job parenting. When in reality I know some of these future grandparents and they are great people. They should know they didn’t mess up anything and they did a great job. It’s just that their child fell in “love” with one of the stupidest people on the planet. It's not love when someone wants to change things about you and tell you how to go about living your life. I believe that is called a controlling relationship and those are frowned upon. I hear they're least likely to be long term, and most likely ending with some type of violence. So good luck raising your child. I hope for its sake that it ends up not being a complete fuck like you turned out to be.